MY KIDS

UPDATE >>>>How I got 10 children to care for ..in 2009

One mom Marilu was with us for 6 years and she turned out to be abusive to her own children physically and emotionally. How ever, she also became very obsessed with her boyfriend and chose to go with him and he did not want to care for 5 extra children Juan age 16,Reyna age 15 Fransico age 14 Isabel age 13 and Ceclia age 9. She comes at least once a month to see them. The youngest was born here and knows no other home

Then the other mom is Adia. She and I have remained in contact after she was asked to leave several years ago and her children were with her all of 2007 to 2008 school year. They are two teens Itzel age 15 and Angel age 14 and a young boy Jesus who is 10. All of the children did not like living in the big city because of all it had to offer. They really were being called to make some hard difficult choices and really wanted to return to my home this last school year. They had some difficult times with their mom and had been thrown out of the house a few times. I was really between a rock and a hard place wondering if I should go to Ensenada to rescue them or what. I did end up going and doing crises intervention with the mom and teens and they finished the school year with their mom. .

After that I offered the mom the placement in my home as an alternative to another turbulous and abusive school year and she jumped at the chance to have her children with me. She is an immature woman and can not get over her feelings enough to discipline the children giving them tough love but boundaries to live within the home.

Then there are two other teens with me . These two are really smart kids but the moms are weak and want to please the children. They do not give boundaries to Omar age 15 ,and Anayeli age 14 for fear of being not liked for a while. |Both of these teens have had some difficult things in the home and both moms have a hard time saying no. So both asked me to help and I do not have a problem with the word no.

Another mom, Rosa, left her two boys age 15 Eloy and Alberto age 17 to go to another man. in 2003. They lived with me for 4 years they are no longer with me. But they live in a boys home near the Casa Del Pastor and are involved in Calvary Chapel San Vicente Horizonte, .They are doing well under the supervision of Mike and he is the director of Casa Josue.

SO………

I really am loving being a mom and HAVE BEEN BLESSED BY THESE CHILDREN !!!

So keep me in prayer and lift us up to the LORD as we will need it as this is the crazy teen house.

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I JUST LEARNED HOW TO DO A VIDEO. so I THOUGHT I WOULD SHARE ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT EVENTS OF 2007
REYNA IS GROWING INTO A FINE YOUNG LADY . I ASK THAT YOU PRAY FOR HER FOCUS TO REMAIN ON JESUS AND NOT THE APPROVAL OF HER PEERS.

2007 THE BIG EVENT

Young mommies

BOth of these girls are under the age of 14. BOTH are mommies
Please pray for their eyes to be focused on to JESUS and to grow in HIS GRace and MERCY to raise thier children to know the love and tender touch of JESUS.
PRAY FOR PAULINA AND VIVIDIANA

NEW FAMLIIES

THESE ARE TWO NEW FAMILIES ON THE RIGHT IS CATALINA . SHE ARRIVED TO US IN A SAD STATE. SHE WAS BEAT UP AND HAD BRUISES ALL OVER HER BODY AND FACE . SHE IS A SWEET WOMAN AND SEEKS TO HEAL HER WOUNDS AND MOVE FORWARD IN HER LIFE. PLEASE PRAY FOR HER BECAUSE I HEAR THAT HER MAN IS LOOKING FOR HER BUT HAS NOT SHOWN HIS FACE AT THE CASA.

ON THE LEFT IS MARIA OF CARLOS . SHE HAS BEEN HERE A WHILE AND SOME OF YOU KNOW HER CHILDREN, CARLOS AND HIS BROTHERS AND SISTERS. I WAS CARING FOR THEM FOR FIVE MONTHES WHILE SHE WENT TO HER STATE TO SEE IF SHE WAS REGISTERED. SHE FOUND OUT THAT SHE IS NOT. PRAY FOR HER AND HER PAPAER WORK TO BE DONE AS QUICKLY AND AS EASLIE AS POSSIBLE.

We are in Phase II and have some growing pains. The whole atmosphere is different and very challenging. It is difficult for me to be gracious and kind when I see any behavior that might damage the grounds and the mom siting near buy and doing nothing. Sometimes moms are so passive and unaware of the comings and goings of their children. It is really an opportunity to educate and teach the moms how to deal lovingly and kindly towards their children. Please pray for the many changes in the near future. We are planning a meeting with moms and go over the expectations and the areas where we need to work on. Please pray for them to seek the Lord and do HIS will It is HIS house and we want to take care of it.

We have a few new moms and one in particular who has been severely physically abused, Catalina. She still lives in terror and is very upset and she has seen him twice and feels he is trying to get her back . He is not the father of her two children and she wants to begin a new life. It seems he is very persistent and sly because no one else has caught him trying to seek her out yet . He is not coming to the door nor coming near CdP when someone else is present. I ask for your prayers for protection all this just happened this afternoon so I am trusting it will all come to light soon.

As written by a supporter of CASA DEL PASTOR.

The grand opening of Casa Del Pastor, June 21 was a beautiful day that many of us had waited for. It has been a labor of love along the side of Dave, Lisa and Jeanie. The property’s construction finally come to an end of its chapter.

Everyone has done a great job in their obedience to the Lord supporting the ladies of the facility. In the heart of our church has been the desired to support this ministry and now be witness of this special day. It was perfect, God gave us a nice sunny day, Pastors came to share, musicians played worship to praise our Lord, and great feast to enjoy!. A large crowd people witness what God is doing in this place. What a perfect day to see God’s love and the presence of His work in CSPS.

After was all said and done, dark and late, few of us stayed to accompany Raul a husband of one of the ladies, he has been there for several years. They now have their own home. Raul share that they had separated for few months and she ended at CdP. After time they got back together and he thanks God that his children and wife ended up here. Because of these events they have learned about a personal relationship with Jesus. He is very grateful. He is the handy men in the facility. I asked him, how would you like us to pray for this place? Raul Replied; "I see in their eyes hate towards men when they arrive. Pray for God to heal and open their hearts and be willing to have a teachable heart and absorb everything they learn of the Lord."

Brethren, God is working at Casa Del Pastor…!!! Pray for everyone that volunteers and also for the women will want to be God’s vessels and allow Jesus to mold them in their character.

Thank you Dave, Lisa, Juanita for your obedience to Jesus!

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NEW VIEW

THINGS CHANGES AND TIME PASSES..... WE HAD THE GRAND OPENING!

I can not believe that it has been since MArch 2008 that I have added news to my blog. We are moving into the new phase this month *(July) and the rooms are beautiful,. My first concern is with the hearts of the moms. We have a variety of personalities that are very hardened buy their past experiences and heartaches. Most of all I ask for prayers for the moms who are struggling with thier own ideas of how we (Lisa and I ) handle situtations. The LORD is the Head of the house and I praise the LORD for HIS direction and wisdom, PLEASE LIFT US UP TO ASSIST THESE WOMEN TO KNOW HIM BETTER .

Jeanie Sue Phegley aka Juanita of Casa Del Pastor; a home for abused,
abandoned and violated moms with their children with a need for refuge
and housing against the abuser located in San Vicente North Baja Mexico

We praise the LORD for his faithfulness to feed and house the 19moms
and the 67 children that are directly involved with CDP. I want to
invite you to celebrate and praise the Lord for the new facility that
will house up to 30 moms or more

.We have a
GRAND OPENING
and
DEDICATION
on June 21 2008.
PLEASE COME AND JOIN IN THE FUN AND ACTIVITIES
PLEASE CONTACT ME AT 619 241 9161
OR LISA 619 241 9224 TO ALLOW US TO PLAN ACCORDINGLY

UPDATE FOR THE CHILDREN THAT WERE IN MY HOME
I am happy to say that Maria came back . She is pregnate and says it is the same father and is ready to have it any time . HER CHILDREN FOUR ARE VERY HAPPY AND SHE IS too.
I have talked to ANOTHER MOM WHO HAS KNOWN MARIA FOR A LONG TIME AND THEY WAY THE CHILDREN WERE TREATED IN THE EJIDO AND SHE SAYS THAT MARIA WAS ALWAYS WITH HER CHILDREN AND SEEMED LOVING TOWARD THEM BUT AT THE SAME TIME SEEMED VERY DEPRESSED AND THAT AFFECTED THE CHILDREN
SO ANYWAY BACK TO THE PRESENT THE CHILDREN ARE VERY HAPPY AND SHE BROUGHT STUFF FOR THEM FROM HER TRIP AND BOY HOWDY AM I GLAD THAT SHE RETURNED! PRAISE THE LIVING GOD
PLEASE PRAY FOR HER AND THE BABY AND HER FIVE CHILDREN . THE TRIP TO GET HER PAPER WORK WAS UNSUCCESSFUL . NEITHER SHE OR HER CHILDREN EXIST ( AS FAR A BEING REGISTERED WITH BIRTH CERTIFICATES) PRAY FOR THIS SITUATION MOMS NOT BEING REGISTERED AND THEN THEIR CHILDREN HAVE NO BIRTH CERTIFICATE EITHER . IT IS A BIG PROBLEM HERE IN MEXICO .
PLEASE PRAY FOR THE WISDOM AND THE FINANCES FOR EACH MOM AND THEIR CHILDREN TO HAVE ALL THEIR PAPER WORK IN ORDER
THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS.

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Lets see if I can tell you a bit of what is going on in CASA DEL PASTOR San Vicente .Mx,
So far the year started out at a run but first... last year a mom left to go to her state of Chiwahah here in Mexico (that is below Texas) to get her birth certificate that she has never had , she is about 30 year old. SHE has five children she asked me to care for the four of her children while she is away . Well as few months later the pastor that was of missionary that helped her coem to us showed up he knew her but not too well however he said that she was gone for good. That was a suprise for me I now have four beautiful children that I will be rasing untill further notice I WILL REMAIN FAITHFUL TO THE PROMISE I MADE TO HER TO CARE FOR THE CHILDREN AND KEEP THEM TOGETHER
WE recieved a 12 year old mom WITH A 8 MONTH OLD BABY that was at the point of getting her child taken from her . She was living in a three sided shack that had no roof. SHE was located in LAS Cabos which is at the tip of Baja and the authorities called me . IT is hurricane season and the mom would not leave the shack and wanted to care for her baby . She is a good mom but so young She is a dolly !! They told heR that she had to enter our shelter home or she would loose her child , she complied. SHE told me she likes it here.
Next we had a retreat in Jan and I fell on my right foot . I pulled a tendon and it is killing me I keep trying to say I am not going to walk on it but my kids do not allow me to remain still .
then we had two big parties for the 15 year olds which is a very important event in the life of young girls. We use it for a purity celebrtaion And then we had a few moms having babies this last two months that is always a blessing to see life begin and to know it is our Creator that made it possible well that is all for now
I pray that you READ MORE LATER
LOVE IN JESUS
JEANIE SUE